Manage Your Anxiety With These 5 Therapist-Approved Techniques You Can Do Anywhere

If you're experiencing anxiety, Sanam Hafeez, PsyD, a neuropsychologist and faculty member at Columbia University in New York City, recommends creating gratitude lists. "Another form of journaling, gratitude lists can be a great way to elevate your mood and help [you] cope with some of the negative thoughts that bring about anxious feelings," she said. "Keeping a journal with a list of positive prompts can help you contrast some of the stressful situations in your day with things that bring you joy."

Meditating is another therapist-approved way to manage your anxiety. "Using guided meditation apps are a free and accessible way to manage anxiety," said Nastassja Marshall, PhD, LCP, and founder of Renewal Therapy. She recommends setting aside 20 minutes each day to meditate to lower anxiety and improve your emotion regulation.

If you aren't into meditating and don't have access to a therapist, try a breathing strategy that can be done anywhere. "It's helpful for people to practice these techniques when they aren't feeling anxious so they are better equipped to implement these skills in an anxious state, when adrenaline and emotions are high," said Lauren Mosback, MA, LPC, NCC, and founder of Lauren Mosback Counseling Services.

The first technique Lauren recommends is 4-7-8 breathing. "Slowly breathe in [for] four seconds, hold your breath [for] seven seconds, and exhale [for] eight seconds," she said. She suggested repeating this technique four to five times.

Another breathing technique you can follow is the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique. "Rather than being trapped by anxious thoughts in your mind, grounding helps you stay in the present moment instead of worrying about things that have happened or may happen in the future," she said.

How to do the 5-4-3-2-1 technique: "Look around you and list five things you see, name four things you feel (your hair, a carpet), three things you hear (birds, the sound of your breath), two things you can smell (your perfume, a candle), and one thing you can taste," Lauren said. "This strategy helps individuals feel more in control of their surroundings and themselves by refocusing on their body and how they are physically feeling rather than on their anxious thoughts," she explained.

LaQuista Erinna, PhD, LCSW, founder of T.H.R.I.V.E. Behavioral Health and Consulting, recommends trying the four-square breathing technique. "Breathe in for four [seconds], breathe out for four [seconds], breath in for four [seconds], and breathe out for four [seconds]," she explained.

To manage your anxiety, Dr. Erinna suggests trying the A-B-C-D method, a mental check-in you can do with yourself. "A: Be aware of your anxiety. B: Be with your feelings of anxiety and be present in the moment. C: Check the message of your anxiety. What are you anxious about? Where is the anxiety showing up in your body? What does your anxiety tell you to do? D: Decide what to do. Is it enough to just acknowledge your feelings, or should you take some other action?" Dr. Erinna said.

Scheduling time to worry may seem like it will cause more anxiety, but according to Heather Z. Lyons, PhD, founder of Baltimore Therapy Group, it can be very helpful. "Worry time is exactly what it sounds like. Rather than allowing anxious thoughts to consume better parts of days or sleepless nights, you can set aside specific time each day for a specific length of time to allow yourself to worry," she said.

If you experience anxious thoughts outside of your worry time, Heather advised writing down those thoughts and coming back to them during the designated worry time. "Worry time works because of a mechanism psychologists call stimulus control," Heather explained. "When we establish specific times to worry, we stop our brain from being stimulated to worry in response to triggers like specific people or places. This helps us begin to disentangle the stimulus-response link."

According to Dr. Erinna, during your worry time, you should write down everything that makes you anxious. "At the end of the week, go back and visit your journal to see what you wrote. It's important to see and acknowledge your concerns," she said.